I'm Going To Wear A Man's Head On My Finger

When I was in basic training I was issued a set of dog tags. We were allowed to hang one religious item from them, so I did. I just thought it looked cool.

Something happened, though, that I didn't expect. When I felt the tags bump against me I remembered the symbol. When I saw myself in the mirror I saw the symbol. When I showered there was the symbol.

It was a constant reminder, and it tended to focus my mind on higher things. I made better choices and I was happier. There was value to it.

To that end I have ordered a silver ring from "averidesigns" on etsy. Here's a picture (I've sent away for permission but I don't anticipate any problems):

Shop owner Brant Spencer is, according to his profile, a very experienced jeweler who has a fascination for ancient coins. He sets them in modern settings and people wear them as jewelry. His work is beautiful; he seems like a real craftsman.

When I get my ring I'll post a review, but so far I'm impressed. He's professional, friendly, and easy to work with. I have an odd ring size (it involves a fraction) but Brant custom makes everything, so it's no problem.

I also ordered a gift for my wife which he is making it to my personal specifications.

His prices are very, very reasonable, which I appreciate because I don't want to spend hundreds of dollars on any sort of accessory. I prefer to buy something that is simple, sensibly priced and created with some professional pride.  

Now of course Stoicism isn't a ring, and trinkets don't make a man, but I do like the idea of a reminder.

So far, so good.